Ladies, I have a confession to make. I'm in a serious relationship... WITH MYSELF...I feel the need to comment upon the fact that I am single. But does that make me or anybody who is single less of a "kick ass" Boss Babe? Heck to the NO. In fact, for those of you who are in the same boat with me or are thinking about jumping into the boat, I highly recommend it. I try to think of myself as my own personal life boat, catered to all of my needs and wants,keeping myself afloat while I go off and try to conquer the world with all of you. I'm not gonna lie, being in high school pretty much automatically makes you boy crazy ( for the most part). Now not all of us are like that and obviously thats A-OK as well. Haha in fact i wouldn't mind leaving my own bod for a second and becoming someone who hasn't always been super interested. That being said, I'm gonna start off this post by being one hundred and ten percent honest with you. I fall into the category of girls who have always wanted a boyfriend. I guess watching too many high school musical re-runs made me fantasize about one day having my own Troy Bolton and that we would live happily ever after. I mean who doesn't think that, right. But now I truly believe that once a girl has been in a relationship, that's all it takes to make her think completely differently about the topic. Yes it's still wonderful and yes it has its perks, but for the most part, it's hard work. At this age, what you need most is not a cute boyfriend that will look good on your arm ( like the trendiest hand-bag that just came out), but a rock solid foundation of pure liquid knowledge.  

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          Ok, lets be real for a moment, I'm a firm believer in love at first site. But you know what the hardest thing ( at least for me) was? My mentality. MY PHONE BECAME MY WORST ENEMY so I gotta come right out and say it. Girl, put the phone down, put on some red lipstick and conquer the world. Yes texting him is fun and it's the best feeling to seem all mysterious at the dinner table when you can't stop laughing and your parents won't stop asking you who you're texting but if you really want a chance, then go meet up and have a fab conversation with the guy.  Buttttttttttttt let me save you like 2 months of your life and just help you imagine it all so you can go back to being awesome. He tells you you're pretty, but you already know that. He says that you're too smart for him, which makes him look even dumber because you also already know that. Then he makes you laugh all the time but if you wanted to laugh even harder, you could go check out the comedy section under Netflix.

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          So you see, yes it's great but yes it's not that great. You know my mom gave me the best advice on boys but just in case you're super young I'll tell you the next best thing she told me ;)  "It's ok to just be friends". For some reason everyone seems to scared of that 6 letter word. But just because you aren't making out with someone doesn't mean that you can't have a rare connection and friendship. Now is the time to find yourself and learn new passions and have the time of your life. Now is the phase in your life when you are supposed to get sassy and find yourself not in other people but for who you truly are. Now I know what you are thinking "Hannah how the heck am I supposed to find myself, I can't even chose a pair of underwear to put on in the morning". Haha don't worry tho, it's ok... Let me share a secret with you WE ARE ALL LIKE THAT!!! Yes I find myself not knowing which smoothie to order and I get hardcore stressed out when I have to pick a dress because it comes in 5 different colors. Yes I second guess myself all of the time but thats reality, and once you learn to embrace that, you are one step closer to finding yourself.

 

HEAD ON OVER TO FULL BLOF POST ON MAIN PAGE TO CHECK OUR MY TIPS ON HOW TO FIND YOURSELF, I PROMISE IT'S WORTH IT:)

(if not tho thats totally ok, I won't love you any less)

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xoxo,Hannah

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